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Old 06-04-2015, 10:56 PM   #46
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Thanks gents.
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Old 06-05-2015, 10:59 AM   #47
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It's final. I get the boy 1/2 the time, and I avoided $$$disaster. We pretty much walked. The house stays mine. Still taking high road.
You are a lucky fellow! Courts where I live like to award the following:

- house to wife
- alimony so that wife can make house payments, so that she does not have to work, and so that she can continue to live "in the style to which she has grown accustomed". Alimony increases if you get a raise.
- half of retirement to wife
- kids to wife (sole custody)
- child support
- visitation for the kids is often a couple of hours one evening every other week, a Saturday and part of a Sunday every other week, a week in summer and either Thanksgiving or xmas.
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Old 06-05-2015, 12:30 PM   #48
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Good luck Steve.
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Old 06-05-2015, 08:59 PM   #49
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Well, that's done. Now, for a bit of legal advise. you're in flarda, right? if you do remarry, do not include new wife on title of home please.
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Old 06-05-2015, 09:42 PM   #50
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Make sure that you dont get a DUI because

That can be used to deny you time with your son...
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Old 06-07-2015, 02:40 PM   #51
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Duly noted. House/DUI aspects.
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Old 11-06-2015, 04:57 PM   #52
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I did NOT get a 401/retirement thing in my first marriage cause I knew it wasn't going to last and I didn't want to split squat with her that my sons didn't deserve. Got the I need your check to go on vacation once. Once. Showed my sons a loving dad and let them make up their own minds l
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Old 11-10-2015, 05:11 PM   #53
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At least temporarily, I want to make things work, but she's convinced it can't. We have a 9 month old son. There's never been any type of abuse at all, simply abrasiveness due to my paycut starting back in July. We just agreed to informal custody, but I'm still hopeful that counseling might help. I have retooled how I interact with her and household chores, but she's so upset that it took me so long. What should I do in the meantime?
In addition to all of his other award-winning James Bond novels Ian Fleming also wrote an insightful short story called, 'Quantum Of Solace'. (Forget the movie; you've got to read the real story in the book!) It's a poignant tale of male/female relationships, as well as some marriages that work, and other marriages that don't. I would wholeheartedly recommend the wisdom contained in this small book to you.

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'Quantum of Solace - the amount of comfort. Yes, I suppose you could say that all love and friendship is based in the end on that. Human beings are very insecure. When the other person not only makes you feel insecure but actually seems to want to destroy you, it's obviously the end. The Quantum of Solace stands at zero. You've got to get away to save yourself.' - A British Governor's sage remark to James Bond in Fleming's book, 'Quantum Of Solace'
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Old 01-16-2016, 10:13 PM   #54
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I went to a gunshow today. Bought a red dot sight and my wife a European necklace. Just because. She cried because I said the same words to her almost 30 years ago. Merry fukn Christmas. Good luck and Godspeed sir.
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Old 01-18-2016, 09:17 PM   #55
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I'm sorry earlier I said something earlier.my sons deserved a good father and support from me which they got. I apologize for the way the computer translated my intent. My kids got what they deserved. A good and loving dad. Damn. My ex didn't use spousal support for anything than what she wanted.
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Old 01-26-2016, 02:05 PM   #56
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Finally offered a full pay teaching position at a charter school. Things are looking up now.
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Glad for you, take it.

My granddaughters attend a charter school in Tallahassee and love it.
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Finally offered a full pay teaching position at a charter school. Things are looking up now.
It takes time, but there is life after divorce...
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Old 01-27-2016, 08:22 AM   #59
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Glad for you, take it.

My granddaughters attend a charter school in Tallahassee and love it.
Already accepted it.
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Old 01-27-2016, 08:23 AM   #60
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It takes time, but there is life after divorce...
Looking that way, but damn, what a meat grinder.....
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